Attracting and Seducing Women
Getting women to feel an attraction for you that isn’t based simply on looks, your bank account or the fancy car you drove up in can be tricky. Every woman is looking for something different. They often aren’t even sure what that is themselves so asking them what they want is a waste of time.
There’s another reason you shouldn’t ask. If you do you appear weak and incompetent, which isn’t good. Women are looking for a man who exudes confidence and seems to know what they and can give it to her.
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And while you want to appear confident, you don’t want to come off as an arrogant sob or a hopeless wannabe.
So how do you pull that off?
Well, it shouldn’t surprise you that the answer lies in psychology. All of us have powerful psychological drives that are susceptible to various triggers. Such drives lie at the heart of all social situations, including seduction. Utilize the correct psychological rules and tactics and you can definitely win the game of seduction.
As an example, let’s go over the option technique.
Imagine that you have a desired outcome, such as getting a woman’s phone number or seeing her again. Most guys would go about that by working up the courage to just ask her for her number. She now has the option of giving you the number or not. One outcome you want, the other you don’t.
While that approach is direct, it tends to arouse resistance. Being asked to give her number might make her feel like she’s being forced to do something. That’s likely to result in her pushing against your request and turning you down.
Here’s how you can handle the situation differently.
Instead of asking for her number directly, say something like “I’ve really enjoyed our conversation and want to continue it sometime. Can we exchange numbers or maybe we can get together for a cup of coffee or something tomorrow?”
Do you see the difference? Now you’ve given her a choice. She feels as if her autonomy has been respected. She’ll tend to focus on which of the two choices you’ve presented and not consider the unmentioned option of doing neither. Of course both the options you presented her with are fine with you.
Men who succeed with women use psychological principles like this whether they are aware of them or not. Some guys innately know what to do or say without necessarily knowing what they’re doing or why it works. Now you don’t have to depend on dumb luck to succeed with women. Even more important, you can stop making the mistakes most men make that completely sabotage their chances of success.