Body Language to Attract Women
Using body language to attract women is one of the wisest moves you can make if your man wants to succeed in the dating and attraction game. For one thing, a lot depends on the first impression you make in your body language is one of the biggest parts of the first impression with anyone, female or not.
In addition, body language is a powerful communicator. Everyone responds to body language whether they are even aware it exists or not. Part of this is rooted deep in our genetics, so it’s not likely to change anytime soon.Now, I wouldn’t want anyone to be manipulative and use body language cues inappropriately, but neither would I want someone to be unaware if they’ve developed a habit of posture or gesture that worksagainst them when it comes to attracting women.
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The best use of body language is when it flows naturally from who you are. However it doesn’t hurt to be familiar with a few of the more common body language signals.
The main message that you want women to receive is an air of confidence and competence. Secondary messages are ones of openness and friendliness. As you would probably suspect the foundation to create this impression is an upright posture with shoulders back, chest forward and head high. You should be willing to make eye contact but avoid annoying staring.
Part of the challenge is having this posture appear normal and natural. You don’t want to carry yourself with military rigidity or come off like a strutting rooster. The best way to have it appear natural is to make this posture your normal, everyday way of carrying yourself, not something you try to put on when you walk into a room and see some women are present. Fact is that most men these days have pretty poor posture. Improving it does take some effort, but is well worth doing and will pay off in a lot of other ways including improved health and less risk of sports injury.
I have a hint here that I bet most men reading this won’t pay attention to. It’s one word: yoga.
I know, that doesn’t sound very manly, but you can skip the metaphysical mumbo-jumbo if you want to and just focus on the physical benefits. You’ll definitely improve your posture, and will also improve your flexibility and muscular balance. Yoga is a great adjunct to any exercise routine and sports activity.
The side benefit here is that most yoga classes are predominantly women. ‘Nuff said.
The other basic body language message is your smile. Women are much more attracted to a smiling man than someone scowling in a corner. The other message of openness is to have your body facing the room or the person you’re interested in. For example, if you’re talking with someone at a bar, go take your body so you’re facing them rather than just turning your head toward them as you talk.
You probably know that crossed arms gives off a negative, “stay away” signal. However many men have a habit of posture that is at least as much a barrier to someone feeling comfortable approaching them as crossed arms. This habit is sitting with the ankle of one leg resting on the knee of the other leg. This cross-legged posture creates the body language equivalent a brick wall in front of you.
If you do cross your legs when you’re sitting with someone you’re interested in, it should be one knee on top of the opposite with the top leg pointing toward the person of interest.
These tips alone will help you create positive attraction and avoid some of the common body language mistakes. As you pay a bit of attention to the way you carry yourself and the messages you receive back, in a very short period of time your body language will be remarkably effective in attracting women.
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