How to Attract a Women Using Physical Contact
If you want to know how to attract a women you definitely need to be aware of the proper role of physical contact. That is, you and she touching physically. It’s a fair assumption that most men are interested in having sex at some point (often sooner rather than later). Properly used, physical contact can greatly increase attraction and create sexual tension. It can greatly ease your seduction.
But beware – done wrong and it can absolutely turn her off.
Here’s some advice on how to get it right.
You’re not going to go from meeting a woman to having sex with her without some intermediate degree of touch. A man who knows how to attract and seduce women handles that smoothly. But most men make mistakes. These desire-killing mistakes tend to be in one of two categories: too much or too little.
In the too much category, some men start pawing or inappropriately touching a woman shortly after meeting her. Awful mistake. There’s often drinking involved, but that doesn’t justify terrible behavior.
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Other men go to the opposite extreme. They meticulously avoid any physical contact whatsoever. They usually have the mistaken idea that this somehow shows respect and makes them attractive. Or they’re just afraid to make a move. Whatever the reason they need to get over it.
Appropriate physical contact heightens the sense of connection and makes a woman feel closer to you sooner. If you hold back, the woman may decide that you’re not interested. Perhaps worse, she might conclude that you’re not much of a man.
So what’s the right approach?
You need to respect the girls boundaries while at the same time conveying that you’re a confident guy who’s comfortable around women. The exact way to do that will vary and you’ll get better at it with practice. Here are some guidelines to get you started.
When you first meet a woman, avoid any touch on an area that might remotely be considered erotic (eg. thigh, buttock, etc.). A generally safe place for a first contact is the outside of her upper arm. This works well for several reasons.
First, it’s a safe, non-erotic area. As importantly, it is easy to do in the normal flow of a conversation – you can lightly and briefly touch her arm as you’re speaking or asking a question. Even better, touching while you’re talking conveys an interest in the conversation and the woman you’re having it with.
Another good way to make initial contact is to take advantage of casual opportunities that seem natural. If you’re walking and there’s a potential optical, even something as simple as stepping on a curb, use the opportunity to gently guide her by her elbow. Not only will you have made physical contact, you will have shown a bit of old fashioned chivalry that women find attractive.
Or if a woman asks where something or somebody is at a party, don’t just tell her. Take the opportunity to place a hand on her shoulder, gently guide her in the right direction as you point with your other hand.
There are a lot of other ways to subtly use touch to break down barriers and build attraction. This is why good coaching on how to approach, meet and interact with women is so important. It keeps you from sabotaging yourself. This is especially important if you don’t have much experience or things haven’t been going well. However, you need real coaching – not some gimmicky method based on silly lines or techniques instead of the basic principles underlying attraction.
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