Seducing a Woman – the Role of Texting
Let’s assume that you’re interested in seducing a woman and you have good intentions. Yes, I know you’re interested in the sex, but I’d also like to think that you’re interested in developing an intimate relationship with another human being. I’ll also assume that you have some contact with the woman in question already, preferably her phone number (if you need help meeting and attracting woman in the first place, click here to solve that problem). Here’s how to progress on your seduction plan using modern media.
Of course you’re going to want to meet her – either for a declared date or just for coffee or to take a look at that art gallery you talked about when you first met. For some reason, a lot of guys make the mistake of using text messages to try to set this up. Big mistake.
I think the reason they do it is because it’s a little more removed and the risk of rejection seems a little easier to take. They can write a short message and leave it at that. They don’t have to worry about holding up their end of the conversation or being told to get lost directly.
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However, women appreciate the extra effort a phone call takes. It conveys more interest and respect. They find that attractive. Also, since so many guys are texting and not calling, it sets you apart from the crowd.
This is not to say there is no role for texting. Save it for after you’re initial contact. You can use it to let the woman know you’re thinking about her or to tell her you had a great time. Phone calls are also good, but you can intersperse calls with slightly more frequent texts.
You have to use some common sense in regard to frequency. You want to show interest without seeming obsessed. From a seduction viewpoint, it can be good to see if you can get a text conversation going into which you can inject a little humor and a little sexual innuendo.
Be careful with the sexual innuendo. You don’t want to go too far too quickly and you want to make sure she’s comfortable with it. This is a skill that’s easier to recognize than to describe.
How far to go with this very much depends on the current state of your relationship. The type of comment I’m talking about might be something like: “Of course, I can think of more fun ways to keep warm on a winter’s night…”
In general, start with a very minor reference and see how she responds.
Facebook has become a phenomenon. You probably should have a profile, but you do need to be careful about what you put on it. This advice applies to other social media sites as well.
First, assume that anything you put on Facebook will be on the web forever and everyone will be able to see it. This is not the place to put anything you wouldn’t want, say, your current or future employer to see. Employers can and do check Google and Facebook as part of their evaluation process these days.
So do women you ask out. So what kind of image do you think will appeal to a prospective seduction target? Probably not a lot of pictures of you with a series of women at drunken brawls. It’s OK to have pictures of you with other woman (at least until you two are a real item). Seeing you having fun with other women can actually make you seem more attractive. It might even arouse her competitive instincts and have her planning on seducing you.
Just remember to make the pictures of you with other women ones you wouldn’t mind showing Mom or having attached to your resume.
Modern technology has added some tactics to the age-old process of seduction. However the basic principles remain the same. The triggers for sexual attraction are hardwired into our physiology. Once you know how to use them you be able to attract virtually any woman you desire.
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